The Conscious Relationship Pact is a Pre-made BPP Pact that a member can facilitate for a couple. It is about shared commitment between two people to meet each other with presence, integrity, and love. It is not a contract of possession, but a living agreement to prioritize growth over attachment, awareness over reactivity, and love over fear.

The pact has 4 guiding values:

1. Freedom over attachment: I am not bound to the outcome of our relationship — growth always comes first.
2. Emotional responsibility: I take ownership of my inner state and how it shapes my words and actions.
3. Radical acceptance: All feelings are welcome here; no inner process is condemned or denied.
4. Love as practice: This relationship is a sacred ground where love is not only felt but embodied, cultivated, and expressed.

Conscious Relationship Pact Script

Each person says these words out loud to the other in turn:

1. I am not attached to the outcome of our relationship – growth comes first.
2. I take responsibility for my emotional state and how it affects my communication. 
3. All feelings are welcome; no internal process is condemned.
4. Our relationship is a place to practice love as a way of being or embodiment. 

"May you grow, glow, know and overflow in love with each other. "

Source and Inspiration from:

4 Qualities of a Conscious Relationship

by Shelly Bullard

Original 4 qualities quoted:

1. The conscious couple is not attached to the outcome of the relationship – growth comes first.
2. Each person in the relationship is committed to owning their s#*t.
3. All feelings are welcome; no internal process is condemned.
4. The relationship is a place to practice love.

Co-Credit: Gaia.